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A Few Myths Concerning A Marital Affair


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By : Dewitt Soto   99 or more times read
Submitted 2013-06-30 19:36:29

Nobody really wants to find out that the person they promised to love through good times as well as bad is carrying on a marital affair. The news by itself is upsetting but on top of that there's a task that has to be confronted in order to untangle this whole trauma and start the healing process. That healing may or may not include the relationship however it certainly means carrying out everything necessary to treat the individual that was victimized by a two timing mate.

However while you go through the recovery stage you will encounter a lot of information. Some of this information will be incredibly helpful. Others not as much and still other details can lead you into making bad decisions regarding your future. For Instance:

Myth 1. An Extramarital Affair Automatically Leads To Divorce

While in many instances husbands and wives break up more than a few marriages survived one mate's betrayal. It will take strong consistent effort and the determination to guard your relationship and make sure things work for the better this time around.

Myth 2. The Unfaithful Mate Doesn't Love Their Spouse Anymore

It is not difficult to see where people are coming from regarding this misconception. If he or she really loved their their mate the last thing they would do is cheat on them. This makes a lot of sense but amazingly quite a few two timing mates still love their spouse. There is of course all sorts of excuses for doing what they did. None are good enough but it doesn't necessarily mean they don't love their significant other or want to quit the relationship.

Myth 3. Excellent Counseling Can Easily Repair The Marriage

Sound counseling may help significantly when you are rebuilding the marital relationship. Yet that's only a part of it. To recover the faith which has recently been erased both parties have to agree to put into place some kind of system that permits the the spouse that has been wronged to monitor their significant other.

Counseling can go a very long way to exposing some of those invisible issues that have stayed concealed for far too long. But fixing the shattered belief is a matter of the cheating spouse checking in with their mate on a consistent basis until they feel better regarding the marriage.

Myth 4. The Marriage Can At Some Point Return To What It Used To Be

The marriage will not be what it was in the past. And in all honesty that's the last thing you really want. Returning the spousal relationship to what it once was will mean putting the marital relationship in the exact same place that caused your husband or wife to be unfaithful. There needs to be substantial lifestyle improvements so returning to the the way things were before is not in the equation.


Author Resource:- To read more regarding making it through unfaithfulness go significant other to life after infidelity



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