They are the which no one who is married wants to hear: your mate is cheating. Unfortunately that is precisely what is occurring within your life. It's not like you didn't have some doubts. There had been certain indicators that as time passed got more difficult to ignore.
For instance your significant other stated on more than a few cases they were working some overtime. The problem is when you checked out the pay stub it never matched up with the amount of hours they claimed to work.
Then there had been other hints like lies that contradicted something they had said previously. Or perhaps friends told you about some questionable conduct they witnessed your spouse engaging in. After doing quite a bit of research you discovered that your marriage partner was undoubtedly carrying on an extramarital affair.
Now comes the next phase and that is confronting your spouse with the proof. Their response might go a variety of ways therefore you have to be prepared for anything and everything. Among them are:
Either the guilt that they were feeling was too much or maybe they recognize that lying about it at this stage is useless. And therefore they come clean. Now exactly how they confess is a category all by itself. Hopefully your mate will express genuine remorse at what they did.
On the other hand it could be a confession of the angry sort. Your spouse is irate that you caught him, angry at being ratted out, ticked off that you were spying into their private life or perhaps each of the above. Yes they confess and they are not happy about it.
2. Your Mate Do Not Care
This is not so much a confession but an act of defiance. You found out what they were up to and they don't give a hang one way or another. In fact they're delighted you found out because now they can let you know why they cheated and even share some of the juicy details. Your spouse takes pleasure in hurting you while at the same time having no regret for their actions.
Stay calm since their whole purpose is to shock you, take control of the situation as well as put you on the defensive. Maintain cool and stay in charge by weathering their arrogance.
3. Keep Lying
Your mate has absolutely no clue what you are referring to. The folks that saw him or her fooling around are obviously wrong. The truth is they are the ones who are lying because for whatever reason these people always hated your mate. This response can be just as maddening as the arrogant one. Regardless of how much rock solid proof you offer they won't admit to having an extramarital affair.
This type of answer will demand a great deal of patience and determination on your part. This may also require you issuing a powerful ultimatum to persuade them to finally admit it.